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Dear Aunt Chelsea,

I’ve been seeing “Troy”
for about three years
now.  Most of the time,
he’s a great guy.  He
does have a terrible
temper, though.  When
we get into arguments,
even the most petty
disagreements, he calls
me names and puts me
down.  He calls me a slut
and whore, even though
I’m not like that at all.  He
says awful things like, “If
you leave me, someone’s
going to die.”  I’ve put up
with it for this long
because he always
apologizes, he’s really
sweet afterward, and he’s
never been violent before,
until about a month ago.
Dear Aunt Chelsea,

As I am still a virgin on the
verge of the sexual frontier,
I am becoming more and
more aware of my body
everyday. While
researching the hymen, I
found that mine does not
look close to that of which is
normal. I am nervous that I
have a "fimbriated hymen"
and that it will affect my first
"encounter" and sex there
after. What should I do?

Rose
Dear Aunt Chelsea:
I love my wife very much. I
still look at other women and
she freaks out. I'm not going
to do anything with these
other girls I look at; I'm just
looking. She's the one I
make love to. What can I do
about her jealousy?
                                              
   
Married, Not Dead
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Dear Aunt Chelsea,

Pregnancy paranoia
from a virgin! Oh dear! I
was messing around with
my boyfriend a few
weeks ago and there
was genital to genital
contact. There was no
insertion or ejaculation
but I'm still nervous I'm at
risk. This happened
once during my period
(tampon in) and once the
week after my period if
that clarifies at all. I've
asked around and the
chances of
near-immaculate
conception are very,
very slim.
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Dear Aunt Chelsea,

How do you feel about
cyber sex? I feel it is a
significant alternative for
singles.  However, what
about for somebody who is
married? Is it ok to "do"
him or her?

Zara
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Dear Aunt Chelsea,

This comment is in
response to Zara's letter:

I stumbled into a cyber sex
situation with a former
writing partner with whom I
had been communicating
for a couple years. She
and my wife had even
shared some IM s over
time, and we considered
her a friend. One day as
we were communicating in
the midst of an erotic poem
she went on an erotic spill
as she had done
previously but this time
added that I was her
fantasy lover.
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Dear Aunt Chelsea,

In light of the recent
public embarrassment of
a well-known politician,
my girlfriend and I got
into a huge argument.  
She said she’d kill me if
she ever found out I was
patronizing a hooker.  I
never have, and I never
plan to, but what she said
next really got me riled
up.

Getting the Cold Shoulder
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Dear Aunt Chelsea,

    My question is this: how
can a woman who’s not
used to “making the first
move” learn how to initiate
sex?


    Ginger